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CORPUS Annual Meeting, Dallas, TX,
June 27-29, 2003
Theme:
Sexual and Sacramental Healing: Redefining the Future
DOES THE CHURCH CARE?
Marriage & Celibacy in
the Third Millennium
by
A.W. Richard Sipe
It is a distinct pleasure for me to be with you.
Your group more than any other have consistently given me encouragement
and emotional support as I have studied the celibate/sexual behavior and
culture of the church. I have not made it easy for my supporters. I am
grateful that you give me a hearing.
Celibacy and sexuality traditionally are
considered areas reserved to Vatican spokesmen who are commissioned to
restate the accepted magisterial (official) teaching. I am well aware that
I tread "off limits" in dangerous territory. I have often swam upstream in
sacred waters. But I have always thought that open dialogue is necessary
and beneficial even about subjects that some people deem closed. You know
the old saw; "It's what we learn after we know it all that counts." I pose
questions that I find basic for the understanding of human sexuality and
religious celibacy. Others may consider these queries bold, dangerous,
impertinent or irrelevant.
FOUR QUESTIONS
I invite you to struggle with me around four
questions that have to do with sex and sacraments. I hold that the answers
to these questions will determine the future of the Church in the next
century and beyond:
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Does the Church really care about clerical
celibacy?
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Does the Church care about a theology of
marriage?
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Can the Church tolerate a married priesthood?
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Can a married priesthood tolerate the Church?
I am well aware that these are "prophetic"
questions, but like much of prophecy there are tremendous practical
implications to the genre.
The American Church can never be the same as it
was before January 6, 2002.
The investigative reporting of the Boston Globe
that began on that date will continue to have monumental effects on the
future of the Catholic Church in America.
I equate that date with October 31, 1517 when
Luther nailed his 95 theses on the door of the Wittenberg cathedral. In
the 16th century Luther's act was an acceptable mode of inviting dialogue.
It was a way to bring issues to public attention. In its time it was not
an act of blind defiance; it was not anti-church, anti-priest, or
anti-Catholic. Neither are the revelations communicated by the American
press. Both publications were attempts to determine facts and truth about
Church function--ecclesiastical behavior. Dialogue is invited and
necessary; as inevitable now as it was then.
The Catholic-Lutheran dialogue of recent decades
has clarified or resolved most of the theological disputes raised in the
16th century--to the point where some Catholic scholars have pushed for
the canonization of Luther. The corruption among bishops and clergy was
and is another question. Only a church council (Trent, 1545-63) could
effect a reform and reestablish moral credibility to the 16th century
Roman Church.
The Catholic Church is equally corrupt sexually
and financially now as it was at the time of the Protestant Reformation.
This is the fact that the Church is struggling so hard to cover up and
deny. It persists in doing so at its own peril. Transparency and
accountability are the healing words of the crisis.
Neither has been implemented or effected in any
degree that merits restoration of moral credibility.
WHAT CHURCH?
You have every reason to ask, "How dare you make
such bold assertions?" "What right do you have to indict the Church to
such a degree?"
First, understand the definition and model of
"Church" that I am using. We all know some bishops and priests who are
clearly not corrupt. We all acknowledge the tremendous good that some
nuns, priests, and bishops have done and are doing. Their sanctity,
service or intentions are not being assailed. I am speaking of broader
categories, beyond the personal.
Cardinal Avery Dulles in his classic Models of
the Church (1974)--a treatise judged to be a "critical assessment of the
church in all its aspects"--outlines five models of the Church: the Church
as Institution, Mystical Communion, Sacrament, Herald, and Servant. Dulles
summarizes his understanding: The first four models
…give a primary or privileged position to the
Church with respect to the world. In the institutional models, the
official Church teaches, sanctifies, and rules with the authority of
Christ. In the communion models, the Church is viewed as God's People or
Christ's Body, growing into the final perfection of the Kingdom. In the
sacramental ecclesiologies, the Church is understood as the visible
manifestation of the grace of Christ in human community…In the herald
models, the Church takes on an authoritarian role, proclaiming the gospel
as a divine message to which the world must humbly listen. (p. 83)
Dulles turns to Boston's Cardinal Richard
Cushing's 1966 pastoral The Servant Church to make his point about his
fifth model. "The Church announces the coming of the kingdom not only in
word, through preaching and proclamation, but more particularly in work,
in her ministry of reconciliation, of binding up wounds, of suffering
service, of healing….And the Lord was the 'man for others,'
so must the Church be 'the community for
others.'"(p. 86) These are not the models of the Church under scrutiny.
They remain valid.
They express an eternal ideal. What the
revelations of the Boston Globe have exposed is another set of operational
models of the Church.
A set of doppelganger models emerges from ghostly
haunts to become visible to the world from time to time. In these ghost
models the 'perfect society' of the Institutional model operates in a
significantly imperfect manor using domination and force to build and
unify community. The Mystical Communion reveals a distinct disunion from
the mind and heart of Christ. The Sacrament Church abandons its role of
grace-giver for a part in the role of life-taker. The Herald Church
effectively ceases to proclaim the unity in faith and uses its power as a
cover for deceit and duplicity. The Servant Church abandons its service of
others and serves it self. Here, what is God's is rendered to Cesar and
what is Cesar's is offered to God. (Demonstrated specifically in the legal
and monetary fury exhibited in dealing with the sex abuse crisis.) Dulles
makes it clear that his models of the Church are not mutually exclusive,
nor do they fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Similarly, the Shadow
models of the Church are not exclusive; they can and do co-exist with
their ideal counterparts.
I think that I am addressing a parallel reality
that Michael Crosby addressed in writing about The Dysfunctional Church.
I address these Shadow models of the Church in
the spirit of Dorothy Day who said, "The Church is my mother. Sometimes
she acts like a whore, but she is still my mother."
Certain realities in Church history make sense
only if we put them in the context of these less-than-perfect models. We
cannot attribute the undeniable negatives of Church history merely to
misguided or even miscreant clerics. The Crusades, the Inquisition, the
persecution of the Jews and heretics, the killing of Joan Of Arc, the
English martyrs, Savonarola, Giordano Bruno, etc. were all part of a
systemic--Church--reaction. Pope John Paul II has apologized for some of
these events. But these events and other movements are not simply
aberrations. We must invoke some model of the Church to understand this
behavior, past as well as present.
Many people miss the profound and lasting
significance of the Boston Globe's work. Far exceeding journalistic
excellence, interest, accuracy or timely community service the Globe
exposed the systemic operation of the Church beyond individual victims,
perpetrators, and churchmen. To use a theological metaphor:
Christ was revealed crucified by a Church
embroiled in denial, deceit, and self-serving political and public
relation ploys in which truth was blithely and repeatedly sacrificed at
the expense of suffering lay people and priests. (We are living out the
reincarnation of 15th century Catholicism.)
THIS CHURCH AND CELIBACY: DOES IT CARE?
This Church of whom I speak lacks moral
credibility to a monumental degree.
(This is the Church that has repeatedly needed
reformation.) The Institutional Church certainly speaks as if it treasures
celibacy. Pope John Paul II has consistently praised the charism and
custom of clerical celibacy. He said in no uncertain terms that even he
does not have the power to alter the prerequisite of celibacy for
ordination to the priesthood.
My research on celibacy since 1960 has painfully
been reinforced by the opportunity to act as a consultant or expert
witness in over 150 cases of sexual abuse of minors by Roman Catholic
Priests. In the process I have read innumerable depositions of priests and
bishops. I have reviewed over 30 feet of documentation.
The Spotlight Team of Boston Globe reviewed
thousands of pages of Church documents. They recorded 150 area priests who
allegedly abused minors. Those pages from Church files told the stories of
victims abused and ignored (245 abusers; 750 victims). They traced Church
efforts to keep sexual behavior secret.
Nationwide, 432 (500) priests were restricted
from ministry because of sexual impropriety in the year following the
Globe's first article. A directory of offending priests is in the process
of compilation; already it contains the names of 2100 priests.
Just as importantly, the press investigation of
sexual abuse of minors opened the door for a logical follow up. What are
the broader implications of celibate culture and behavior? Are there
Cardinals and bishops who have had or are having sexual affairs with
women? Yes. Are there Cardinals and bishops who have had or are having
sexual friendships with men? Yes. Are there Cardinals and bishops who have
abused minors? Yes. This is no revelation. Some reports are already a
matter of public record. Since 1990, 22 Roman Catholic bishops have
resigned due to some sex scandal or other.
But the true story of celibate violation has not
yet begun to be told. In the US it will continue to slip out into public
view via court documents and Grand jury reports. Only one of the nine
Grand juries empanelled has so far published its report. It said that the
diocese in question was "incapable of monitoring itself" with regard to
sexual abuse by priests. Studies of celibate practice by concerned
Catholics continue to build a data base. For instance a survey from
Switzerland:
More than 300 women were found to have had
clandestine relationships with Catholic priests resulting in 146
children…Further results from the poll showed that more than 50 per cent
of Swiss priests did not observe the celibacy rule;
91 of the priests investigated were still in
office; 35 had had more than one affair; 207 were diocesan priests and 92
of the priests were members of religious orders; 11 had not told the women
concerned where they worked; and only 75 of these affairs had ended in
marriage.(Tablet, 24 May, 2003. p. 28)
Jesuit sociologist Joseph Ficther reported more
than a decade ago that 30 per cent of German priests had companions
(mistresses). Currently this estimate remains the same. In the 1990s the
Claretian priests published survey of clergy sexual activity in Spain.
They reported sexual activity with minors higher than any estimates made
of violations in the US, and non-celibate behavior in 65 per cent of
clergy. Australian studies estimate that between 7 and 15 percent of
Catholic religious were involved in the sexual abuse of minors in their
country. I stand by my 25-year ethnographic study of priests in the US:
50% of priests practice celibacy; 6% involve themselves in sex with
minors. Repeatedly independent secular surveys are validating that base
line. (Laurie Goodstein, NYT, DD&S survey) The Vatican's International
Conference on Celibacy held in Rome in May 1994 had slated an African
Cardinal and a South American Cardinal each to address the topic of
celibacy on his own continent. Neither uttered a word about celibacy. Each
changed the topic to "Evangelization."
What do I make of the hodge podge of data
accumulating in the public arena?
The Church does know the truth and the extent of
sexual activity by its clergy.
The shadow Church tolerates sexual activity by
clergy. It may register it as sin (but not always). When behaviors come to
public attention that Church engages denial or feigns surprise.
The Shadow Church I see does not really care
about celibacy in practice. It is immune to any and all studies of its
celibate behaviors no matter how scientifically acceptable. (One example
is the study of priests who died of AIDS conducted by Judy Thomas of the
Kansas City Star, 1/31-2/3/00. Assailed by Church spokespeople, validated
by independent agencies.) Under severe public pressure in 2002 the
institutional Church in the US has set up its own National Review Board to
investigate sexual abuse by clergy, but it remains questionable if self
reporting will be reliable or that any substantive conclusions will be
accepted. The shadow Church prefers image to integrity; prefers conformity
and control to community. It is not a Church of truth, but deception.
"Peter Damian fears a church of Sodom within the
church of God. He suspects or infers the operation of a shadow hierarchy
with its own means of governance and of recruitment. Sodomitic bishops
protect sodomitic priests. The priests in turn corrupt those whom they
have baptized or heard in confession..The threat posed by Sodomy to the
church is a lethal one. Sodomy attacks the church by attacking the clergy,
who seem particularly susceptible to it. Once inside the clergy, the vice
conceals itself behind the bland face of piety or the hypocritical face of
condemnation."
(Mark Jordan, writing on Peter Damian's work The
Book of Gomorrah in The Invention of Sodomy in Christian Theology, p. 50)
WHAT ABOUT MARRIAGE: DOES THE CHURCH CARE?
Many people are loath to say that the Church does
not care about marriage. All of us have benefited from pastoral care
during family weddings, baptisms, hospital visitations, and funerals. And
we are grateful. The Sacrament Church and the Servant Church do exist and
operate. But beyond that, the Institutional Church puts forward its strong
stand against contraception, premarital intercourse, masturbation,
homosexuality, and abortion as if it maintains a clear commitment to
marriage and the family. I view those stands as quite the opposite. I
perceive those absolutist stands as mechanisms of control.
Theologians are quick and accurate when they
point to pastoral care that disregards the iron clad Church teaching on
sex in favor of reason, gentle understanding, and compassion. Others note
the hypocrisy in this bifurcation in the absence of honest, respectful
discourse.
Theologian Michael Marx said, "If the Church
wants a theology of marriage it should let married people write it." The
Mystical Church and the Herald Church may some day achieve enough power
over the Shadow Church to fulfil that goal.
It will not be easy. The Shadow Church betrayed
the lay commission Pope Paul VI set up to consult on the question of birth
control. Doctor John Rock (Catholic daily communicant, Harvard professor,
and inventor of the pill) experienced that betrayal as acutely as Galileo
did his. Both judgements have proved unreasonable.
A majority of Catholic people--and many
priests--do not accept the reasoning of the prohibition on birth control.
Nor do they always condemn pre marital sex among committed couples, or
abortion under all circumstances. They do, however, decry the sexual
exploitation of children, with the sensitivity and fury of parental
experience and instinct.
Pious and even profound treatises from a Vatican
Office on marriage will never substitute for the knowledge garnered from
the lived experience of Christian married love. But look at the roster of
"saints" canonized by the Church. Is there a single sexually active
married man or woman among them? What does that say about married love and
service? What understanding of sexuality does that reveal?
The political causes some institutionally driven
bishops pursue are petty and puzzling. The bishops of New York mobilized a
strong lobby to resist legislation that would include insurance coverage
for birth control pills. It registered no opposition to insurance coverage
of Viagra. Great political pressure is frequently exerted to fight equal
rights for gays, seemingly oblivious to the over representation of gays in
the ministry. The condemnation of homosexuality is posed as a defense of
the family. It is nothing of the sort. Committed same sex love and
relationships have nothing to do with disrupting traditional married love
and families.
In short, the Church imposes a "celibate"
criterion for sexual morality. Non marriage, and perfect and perpetual
chastity, defined as freedom from every sexual thought word, desire and
action, is their idea of the ideal Christian state. Marriage is a
concession to fallen human nature that is redeemed by the production of
children. (The more the better, regardless of economic or even physical
constraints: Pope John Paul has repeatedly preached about the evils of
contraception to the impoverished masses of the Philippines and India. The
Vatican holds that the use of contraceptives are unacceptable even between
a married couple, one who is HIV infected.) Again I point out the
consistent proof the Church provides by selecting models of sanctity who
are exclusively celibate men and women.
CAN THIS CHURCH TOLERATE A MARRIED PRIESTHOOD?
There are 23 Rites in communion with Rome that
have a married priesthood.
Rome also has made exceptions for married
Lutheran and Anglican ministers to be ordained and function in dioceses.
Those married priests, however, may not hold any administrative office. In
that we get a clue to the degree of acceptance possible for a married
priesthood in the Latin Rite. The threat posed to the established Church
is clear. Although the traditional theological models of the Church could
admit of a married priesthood without internal contradiction, the power
system of the Church can not tolerate the intrusion of men with public
commitments to a wife and children. Their basic rationale: Married love
(sex) renders a man unworthy of celebrating the Eucharist.
In fact there is an emerging theology of the
priesthood that I think will prove heretical. Namely the equation of
priesthood with a "spousal commitment."
In this theory celebration of the Eucharist
becomes a spousal--marital--exchange. That sexulization of the Sacrament
is painfully obvious, odious, and outlandish. The distortion of the
banquet table of Communion to the context of a bedroom exchange (between
the priest and his spouse, Christ; and/or the altar) is abhorrent beyond
belief. This theology is an attempt to bind priest and celibacy into an
inextricable union never envisioned by any patristic theology of
priesthood.
The vocation to the priesthood and the vocation
to celibacy are separate and separable, no matter how interrelated, just
as much as the vocation to medicine and marriage are distinct. The failure
of the practice of celibacy is in large part due to the failure to
practice it as a real and separate vocation.
Priesthood is not opposed to marriage any more
than a vocation to law is opposed to marriage. Celibacy and marriage are
the oppositional vocations.
No developed Christian theology restricts married
men, or women for that matter, from the priesthood of Christ. What model
of Church can one appeal to sustain a stance that sex or marriage is an
essential impediment to priesthood?
The profound distrust and even hate of women and
their influence that the Shadow Church harbors is not buried very far
below the surface of clerical consciousness. Even though individual
married priests, bishops, and even popes dot the history of the Church,
the institution of a married priesthood has never prevailed or dominated
in the structure of the Church. Some pre Reformation popes could brag
about their bastard children and even promote them to Church offices, but
they could not legitimize them or their mothers into the system. They
remained part of the Shadow Church.
The words of the Church speak of reverence for
celibacy and marriage, but in actions it tolerates priests who have
mistresses and children--to an overwhelming degree in South America and
Africa and to a significant degree in the rest of the Catholic world. It
is clear now to that even sexual activity with minors could be tolerated
among active priests to a remarkable degree. Only the outrage of public
exposure and criminal and civil litigation--not moral leadership--has
moved the Church to some action.
The Church has regarded sexual activity of
priests, bishops and Cardinals sometimes as sin, always forgivable, and
most of the time understandable as part of the human condition. Everything
can be justified as long as the cleric remains loyal and obedient to
Church authority. When a priest's sexual activity threatens to become
public, submission to power, not fairness or justice for women and
children, provides the operational guideline for the Church.
After all, don't priests forgive the sexual sins
of lay people who come to them? And does not the sexual teaching of the
Church insure that every unmarried person and most married couples are
sinners? Why should clergy not receive the same understanding,
consideration, and easy forgiveness?
But in truth, religious hypocrisy is less
understandable and more unforgivable than sexual violation. Hypocrisy is
the fundamental religious transgression. The Shadow Church is the Church
of hypocrisy. The Shadow Church is the Church of control--power--at all
costs. Even truth is expendable in the service of control
Even though the Church may be able to welcome
marginally the pastoral service of married men it cannot compromise its
power system that is based on sexual control. That control is even more
threatened by the prospect of ordained women.
The Shadow Models are strongly opposed to a
married priesthood and women's ordination. That opposition is not based on
the models of Mystical Unity, Service, Sacrament, or Prophetic
proclamation of the Good News. A married priesthood would destabilize the
political power base of the Shadow Church.
CAN A MARRIED PRIESTHOOD TOLERATE THE CHURCH?
Pope John Paul II has given explicit and personal
instructions to bishops that they my not discuss a host of sexual issues
in any terms other than his official teaching. The pope's prohibition
outlines what theologian William Shea long ago (1986) called the "tangle
of issues…that clogs up our Catholic calendar." This list of issues that
Catholic leadership has failed to deal with credibly has to do with sex:
…family life, divorce and remarriage, premarital
and extramarital sex, birth control, abortion, homosexuality,
masturbation, the role of women in ministry, their ordination to the
priesthood, the celibacy of the clergy, and the male monopoly of
leadership. (p. 589)
Shea also indicates that fear and hatred of women
within the clerical system is an impediment to addressing this agenda.
(Cf. Malleus Maleficarum. Kramer & Sprenger, O.P. 1971 ed.; Sin and Fear.
Delumeau, 1990; Medieval Misogyny.
Bloch, 1991
How can a married priesthood enter and coexist in
this system credibly?
Will not married love and parenthood severely
disrupt the clerical system? A married priesthood would of necessity have
to address this celibate/sexual agenda or else become co-conspirators with
the Shadow Church. A married priest would have to be a prophet or a toady.
A missionary to South America, speaking about the
indigenous clergy, once said to me, "Some day the Church is going to
insist that these priests marry."
What Church will that be? Certainly not the
Shadow Church that finds duplicity comfortable and reform an enemy to be
avoided at all costs.
A married priesthood may very well be in the
future of the Church. But not in the Church as it exists today. The Shadow
Church is too broadly dominant at the present time to tolerate a
deconstruction of its power. As in the past, reformation is the only
logical outcome of the present crisis. But those of you who are active in
pressuring the Church for a married priesthood are on the right side of
history--on the side of eccelsia semper reformanda (the church always in
need of reform) that the Fathers of the Church championed.
Sexual abuse of minors is a significant crisis,
brought to public attention by law enforcement and the secular press, but
it is only a symptom of the fundamental crisis facing religion. The
complicity of authorities in hiding celibate transgressions and the
failure of moral leadership in dealing with the problem only highlight the
real urgency of the crisis.
The current crisis of the Church is the Shadow
Church that distorts the mission and power of the Gospel for its own
aggrandizement, for its own perpetuation and control. And the keys to the
solution of the crisis are to be found in facing the issues of sex and
celibacy from the vantage of Christian experience.
Sexual and sacramental healing will not take
place without meeting the historical challenge as it presents itself to
us. That challenge is daunting, since there is not yet a Christian
theology of sex or marriage to draw on. One can have empathy for the
caution and timidity of men in authority who shy away from such grand
issues that have no crystal clear alternatives to established norms. But
they do not merit credibility for their resistance to respectful
discourse. It is our duty to foster discourse or run the risk of being
part of the Shadow Church.
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